How did I not see this amazing, hilarious, and thoughtful Seinfeld episode when it was first aired?
For a few seasons, Seinfeld – that brilliant, inventive TV sitcom – was a cultural blockbuster, creating catch phrases and situations that millions across North America embraced and used as their own ‘insider’ language.
The episode that fascinates me concentrates, in part, on the relationship between principal character Elaine Benes and her boyfriend, David Puddy.
Benes (played by Julia Louis-Dreyfus) finds out Puddy (Patrick Warburton) is “religious”. This sets up all sorts of conversations between the two, plus other principal characters Jerry and George Constanza.
Here’s a sample of dialogue:
Elaine: I borrowed Puddy’s car and all the presets on his radio were Christian rock stations.
George: I like Christian rock. It’s very positive. It’s not like those real musicians who think they’re so cool and hip.
Elaine: So, you think that Puddy actually believes in something?
Jerry: It’s a used car; he probably never changed the presets.
Elaine: Yes, he is lazy.
Jerry: Plus, he probably doesn’t even know how to program the buttons.
Elaine: Yes, he is dumb.
Jerry: So you prefer dumb and lazy to religious?
Elaine: Dumb and lazy, I understand.
First off, ye gotta love George’s casual dissing of Christian musicians and his breathtaking ignorance. Did you know, for example, that singer/songwriter/guitarist Bruce Cockburn is a Christian? I’ve never heard a single critic knock him for his artistic ability.
Second, the notion of Elaine preferring a dumb and lazy boyfriend to one who is “religious” is not only funny, it’s a remarkably accurate assessment of our culture. From what I can tell, most people would rather spend hours debating the behaviour of the latest Hollywood bad boy/girl than even think about spirituality and life’s big questions.
There’s no doubt that celebrity antics hold the same sort of fascination we feel when we drive past a car wreck. But in the end, does it make any difference in our lives?
Some more priceless Seinfeld dialogue:
Elaine: So, you’re pretty religious?
Puddy: That’s right.
Elaine: So is it a problem that I’m not really religious?
Puddy: Not for me.
Elaine: Why not?
Puddy: I’m not the one going to hell.
Yikes! If any serious follower of Jesus of Nazareth (who many people believe is God’s Son) has used words like this with you, I apologize here and now. It’s no exaggeration to write that anyone who takes his or her faith seriously is never blasé about the fate of friends, family, and loved ones. I’ve eaten veggie burgers that tasted more real than the faith Puddy displays.
Real Jesus followers sacrifice themselves in the same way they believe Jesus took on our failures and misdeeds when Roman authorities hung him on a cross. An ancient document about Jesus says “First we were loved, now we love. God loved us first.”
If you encounter a person who seems somehow different because he/she knows this amazing truth, then you’ve met the real thing and I hope you walk away thinking about your life and your fate.
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Lighten up, it will only feel like an eternity…
Great article!
Thanks for reading and commenting, Sue. 🙂
Good point!
Thank you, Tarnika, for reading and commenting. 🙂
I agree with you that more and more people would prefer a dumb and lazy partner over a religious one, but I’m going to respectfully disagree with your reasoning for why. I would argue it’s not that people don’t want to think about life’s big questions, it’s that more and more people are finding those answers outside of religion.
A Pew study last year, for example, found the religiously unaffiliated are the fastest growing “religious” group in the United States and one in five Americans are now non-religious. It’s like Elaine said, dumb and lazy we understand. Religious? Not so much.
Thanks for your thoughtful comment! I found my answers outside of “religion”, too. If you’re wondering what I’m talking about, this blog explains it: http://wp.me/p2wzRb-2L 🙂
Well to be fair. When People look for answers outside of religion, it’s usually because it has a preferable outcome, not because it’s more reasonable. Think about it, without religion, what basis is there for most of the answers people come up with other than the fact that it’s more pleasant? At least the characters on Seinfeld are more honest instead of coming up with a pretentious reason why.
I just about die laughing every time I watch the “dumb and lazy I understand” scene that you’ve quoted here.
Really? you used Seinfeld to put your belief that Christ is your Lord. Lame my friend… lame.
Thanks for your comment, Jason. I was thrilled for the God-given opportunity to use a Seinfeld episode to tell people about the absolute best news in this world and in the world to come.
I’ll use every opportunity He provides because as far as I’m concerned, there is nothing more important than telling open-minded people about a real and life-changing hope that can be found in following Jesus.
To that end, I also used Brad Pitt (http://wp.me/p2wzRb-bf), Keira Knightley (http://wp.me/p2wzRb-8n), Bill Maher (http://wp.me/p2wzRb-gg), Canadian classic rocker Burton Cummings (http://wp.me/p2wzRb-6Q) and Queen’s Freddie Mercury (http://wp.me/p2wzRb-fR) to advance the same vital message.
It’s my prayer, Jason, that people open to spirituality will check out at least one of these blogs and, as a result, begin to re-think what our culture says is true and important. If that’s “lame”, Jason, then I want to be as lame as possible. 🙂